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Stand with the widows of Israel’s fallen soldiers. Through Kuma.

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*This gift may be considered for the mitzvah of Matanot La’Evyonim and/or given as a donation in lieu of Mishloach Manot

Kuma provides tax-deductible pathways in the US, Israel, UK, Canada, and Australia.

For bank details, our EIN, or specific instructions for international giving, please email inbar@sulamot.org.

Important: Please notify us via email when you send a bank transfer or DAF donation. Records often arrive without donor names, and your email ensures we can identify your gift and issue your tax receipt.

Kuma provides tax-deductible pathways in the US, Israel, UK, Canada, and Australia.

For bank details, our EIN, or specific instructions for international giving, please email inbar@sulamot.org.

Important: Please notify us via email when you send a bank transfer or DAF donation. Records often arrive without donor names, and your email ensures we can identify your gift and issue your tax receipt.

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Voices of Kuma

“Knowing I don’t have to carry these heavy decisions alone is how I know I am truly seen”

Reut Shabtai, widow of Guy Shabtai

FAQ

Kuma supports widows of IDF soldiers and security personnel who fell in the line of duty during the Iron Swords War and are officially recognized by the Israeli Ministry of Defense. 

We serve women from all backgrounds, sectors, and communities across Israel, without regard to religious affiliation or geographic location.

Kuma offers structured, short and long-term care that includes tailored guidance, monthly stipends, emergency grants, rights navigation, and logistical assistance. The ripple effect leads to emotional stability within the families.

Kuma was launched in February 2025 in response to the Iron Swords War. The program is rapidly scaling to support 325 widows by 2026. We are committed to walking alongside each widow for a five-year journey, providing consistent and structured support through 2029.

Given the evolving nature of the crisis, we have built in formal program reviews after program year 4 to evaluate the continued need for Kuma among the widow community and determine in what capacity the program should operate moving forward.

  • Monthly stipends to help cover essential living expenses
  • Emergency relief grants for urgent, time-sensitive needs
  • Emotional and personal support through regular, ongoing contact
  • Rights and benefits navigation, including Ministry of Defense entitlements
  • Bureaucracy and paperwork assistance
  • Personal financial planning and budgeting support
  • First-time mortgage guidance and long-term financial planning support
  • Household assistance, including appliance replacement support
  • Volunteer handyman services for home maintenance needs
  • Referrals and coordination with partner nonprofits to ensure families receive comprehensive support

Kuma’s team provides hands-on, step-by-step support to help widows navigate complex government systems and fully understand the rights and benefits available to them. Staff proactively inform each widow of her entitlements, explain eligibility and application processes, and advocate on her behalf throughout the process. This includes assistance with document collection and submission, navigating online government portals, and follow-up with relevant authorities—often unlocking significant, previously unclaimed benefits and replacing confusion and frustration with clarity, dignity, and access.

While the Ministry of Defense provides important baseline support, it is often limited in scope, highly regulated, and difficult to navigate. Many services are available only in major cities, leaving widows in peripheral or rural areas with limited access. In addition, support is frequently restricted to specific service types or pre-approved providers—such as a limited list of therapists—which may not align with a widow’s individual needs. Kuma complements government support by offering flexible, personalized, and responsive assistance, including access to alternative therapeutic options and tailored support solutions, ensuring that care is accessible, timely, and appropriate to each widow’s circumstances.


Given the evolving nature of the crisis, we have built in formal program reviews after program year 4 to evaluate the continued need for Kuma among the widow community and determine in what capacity the program should operate moving forward.

  • Many organizations provide important enrichment programs, retreats, or one-time gifts that offer meaningful moments of relief. Kuma addresses a different and critical need: long-term, structured support. Kuma combines ongoing financial assistance with hands-on case management and outcome-driven planning, accompanying widows over time to stabilize their households, navigate complex systems, and rebuild sustainable lives. This sustained, individualized model fills a gap that short-term or episodic interventions cannot address.

Referrals come from the Ministry of Defense, IDF casualty officers, rabbis, social workers, social media, widow support groups, other widows and primarily direct outreach. We actively seek out widows—rather than waiting for them to come to us.

Our Program Director, Shlomit Peretz, is an IDF widow of 15 years and active in national widow networks. Our Senior Advisor, Shlomit Kalmanzon, is a respected advocate and widow of the Iron Swords War. Their presence ensures trust, sensitivity, and immediate connection.

Sulamot’s proven success in managing large scale operations with sensitivity and efficiency is a major factor as well.

Kuma is built for sustained impact, not one-time intervention. Families typically receive support for up to five years, with flexibility to continue when circumstances require. The model is designed to stabilize families in the immediate aftermath of loss while intentionally building toward long-term independence and security.

Immediate support: Monthly stipends address essential, ongoing needs such as childcare, household support, and therapeutic services. Emergency relief grants respond to urgent or time-sensitive expenses, including medical costs, critical home repairs, and significant family milestones.

Long-term support: Kuma’s professional team partners with each widow to plan for a stable future. This includes long-term financial planning, guidance through first-time homeownership, and support in building savings and financial resilience—so families are not only surviving, but positioned to move forward with strength and dignity.

Yes. We adjust support based on family dynamics, employment, government aid, and emergencies—always guided by real-time needs.

“They walk me through my finances and provide the targeted aid my family actually needs”

Lior Becher, widow of Gal Becher

 

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Kuma Leadership

Joel Mael

MBA, Private Investor

Rivky Green

PhD clinical psychologist, Mizrachi Canada executive

Hon. Judge Elyakim Rubinstein

Former Israeli Supreme Court Judge

Joseph Gitler

Founder and Chairman of Leket Israel

Miriam Peretz

Israel Prize, Laureate

Rav Yosef Zvi Rimon

Founder of Sulamot

Having walked closely with our widows through the shadows of the Iron Swords War, I have seen the true meaning of courage. Amidst the loss, one essential truth remains: Kuma exists to ensure that no woman is left to carry her burden in solitude.

Rav Eli Taragin

Executive Director of Sulamot

Through the Kuma Program, we are deeply committed to these extraordinary women who have sacrificed so much for our people. It is our sacred responsibility to work with excellence – ensuring they have every resource and support they need to rebuild and thrive.

Shlomit Peretz

Director of Kuma, IDF Widow

As an IDF widow, I know that the journey of loss is long. Through Kuma, I have found a profound way to ensure no woman walks this path alone. We are here to hold you, to support your rebuilding, and to make sure you have every resource you need to rise again.

Shlomit Kalmanzon

Strategic Advisor, Widow of the Iron Swords War

My husband’s sacrifice on October 7th drives my commitment to every IDF widow. At Sulamot, we combine strategic advocacy with a sisterhood of hope. I want every woman to see in our mission the promise that she is never alone, and that together, we have the strength to rebuild our lives with dignity and strength.

Jonathan Eltes

Co-Founder, Kuma

Kuma is a true privilege to be part of. The impact on these families lives are real and impactful.

The strength and humility these women possess, is beyond words. Their husbands gave everything for our people. Standing beside them is simply the least we can do.

Rav Elan Mazer

Director, Mizrachi Canada

Meeting families who have experienced loss taught us that no two journeys are the same. Kuma was created from this understanding  with a deep commitment to personalized, sensitive, and dignified support.

Lirit Lopez

Director of Financial Guidance & Rights Advocacy

It is a true privilege to accompany Kuma’s widows, easing their daily burdens while providing the financial tools to strategically plan for the future. By offering professional guidance with sensitivity and care, we empower every widow to build long-term stability and peace of mind.

Tehila Beeri

Director of Operations & Case Management

I am driven by the incredible strength of these women. As the point of contact for their daily needs, I manage the logistics and benefits that turn our community’s solidarity into real, tangible support. I am here to ensure that every detail is handled so they have the foundation to rebuild.

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